Encountering Challenging Relationships
Have you ever had people in your life who, despite their closeness, seem to unsettle you every time you see them? If so, you're not alone. I've experienced it too.
Some people are part of our lives because they anchor us to our past, reminding us where we come from, but they might not aid in our growth today or in the future. They grasp our history, but not necessarily our current or future plans.
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A Visit from the Past
When my old friend visited recently, I had no particular expectations. We've been friends for a long time, though our views on life often differ.
"Artists are psychopaths without an official diagnosis," she remarked as we walked past artist studios. "People who aren't settled call themselves artists," she laughed. I disagreed, knowing many artists who are rational, clear-minded, and excellent businesspeople. Although she recognized the power of art, long-held preconceptions clouded her judgment.
Understanding and Accepting Different Perspectives
I understood where her ideas came from. There are artists who lead chaotic lives—I know some personally. Many still believe in suffering or needing a muse to create. Yet, I also realize that often, "the grapes we can't reach are the sourest."
Those who haven't engaged with art often don’t understand the depth of creation. Making art is a sacred, personal sanctuary, a spiritual homecoming. Ironically, those far removed from this process can be the harshest critics.
Missing Out a Lot
I feel a sense of pity for those who have never shown interest in artistic activities, as I believe they miss out on life’s richness.
They miss the connection with both God and themselves, an experience artists cherish when creating. Most significantly, they miss connecting with their highest self.
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Transforming the Anchor of the Past into One of the Future
Despite enjoying my friend’s visit, I felt emotionally drained and disconnected afterward.
Once I regained my energy, I realized this: no matter how close someone is, they may not resonate with who you are now. They might connect with who you were, but not your present self.
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Maintaining old relationships is important if they once held significance, but it's vital to never lose sight of your own path. We all have directions in life, and they don’t always align.
Have you felt that someone dear resonates more with your past than your present? I'd love to hear your story.