Embracing the Outsider Within
I never belonged. And you know what? I didn't always want to belong either. It’s a strange feeling, you might think—a sense of not caring about being the outsider while so many others fiercely compete for a spot among the "cool kids." But what does it truly mean to be "cool"? Today you're in, tomorrow you’re out, and a few months down the line, that status fades farther and farther into the background. Life inevitably hits us all, and suddenly, being cool drops to the bottom of our priority list.
I also didn’t want to conform to the groups that strive to be like Terminators—tough on the outside, yet neglecting their inner selves as if their emotions and vulnerabilities don’t exist. Sure, you might take pride in that tough exterior for a while—one year, two, maybe even ten or more. But is life really only about our outer shell? Eventually, emptiness creeps in, lurking beneath the muscles, gold rings, Botox, extensions, fancy watches, and so on.
Moreover, I had no interest in belonging to crowds that focus solely on projecting dominance to gain respect. External authority doesn’t equate to internal strength. I believe that a truly powerful person doesn’t need to impose respect; they earn it through inherent kindness and empathy for others.
Have I ever felt bad about not belonging? Absolutely. But that was during times when I lacked the emotional maturity to appreciate the deeper connections we all crave.
Redefining Strength: Empowerment Through Kindness
We all have a desire to belong, and if that's a fundamental need, isn’t it worth being intentional about the groups we choose?
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Let’s align ourselves with those who aim to grow together, inspire one another, invest in education and experiences, and share their inner beauty with the world.
Let’s connect with those who radiate true inner power rather than the fleeting illusion of it.
Let’s join communities that prioritize spiritual and emotional growth, thereby leaving a meaningful legacy behind.
Real Leadership: The Strength of Vulnerability
I recently listened to a podcast that resonated deeply with me. The guest emphasized, "People in leadership positions should be the ones who appear weak, because in them lies true power." This is the world I aspire to live in—a world where strength is defined by inner resilience, not ostentatious wealth.
We have the power to create that world—not just through our creations but also through our own evolution. What is your ideal world? What kind of tribe do you want to belong to? What kind of tribes do you want to build for you and your children?